Yesterday, too free. Went hair do. Yen asked, why people always like to ASK other people's opinion in their decision making process? In deciding a career, deciding on an investment, deciding on life partner, and sometimes EVEN want to go toilet or not ..
I looked at her, stoned for few second, started to think, ya hor, WHY HAR?
I am sure in your mind now, sure answer:
1. To seek 2nd opinion LA~
2. Gather more information, brainstorm MA~
After few second of thought, I told Yen, those people who LOVES to seek opinion or perhaps have the habit of puting responsibilities to others, maybe is because they do not have confidence on themselves, lack of knowledge, and always want to put responsibility on others. Have you heard of someone said this "AIYO, SHE ASKED ME TO COME ONE .. I DUNNO ONE .. " "AI SEH, SHOULD NOT LISTEN TO HER"
DO NOT misunderstood me, seek 2nd opinion is good, the question is, we always take other people's 'advice/opinion" for granted. Then BLAME others for giving you wrong advice when the results of the advice is not what you expected.
BUT, BUT BUT, have you EVER responsible for your own stuffs? Are you seeking opinion from the RIGHT person? A person who have enough knowledge to assist you in making the decision? Do you USE your wisdom to justify and digest info given?
If you cant think of the scenario, it is probably like when you deciding to join a new career, when your investor deciding to invest or not to invest and always want to get 2nd OPINION. The questions is, all these people, included you, are you always discuss or ask the RIGHT QUESTION TO THE RIGHT PERSON?
Like what Yen said, in this world, there is no BEST SOLUTION/ANSWER, ONLY have the BEST SOLUTION that SUIT you the MOST! You always know yourself best, no one knows you better than yourself.
Go to toilet to pee or not to pee~ You know one la ... HAHA.
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