Yesterday, too free. Went hair do. Yen asked, why people always like to ASK other people's opinion in their decision making process? In deciding a career, deciding on an investment, deciding on life partner, and sometimes EVEN want to go toilet or not ..
I looked at her, stoned for few second, started to think, ya hor, WHY HAR?
I am sure in your mind now, sure answer:
1. To seek 2nd opinion LA~
2. Gather more information, brainstorm MA~
After few second of thought, I told Yen, those people who LOVES to seek opinion or perhaps have the habit of puting responsibilities to others, maybe is because they do not have confidence on themselves, lack of knowledge, and always want to put responsibility on others. Have you heard of someone said this "AIYO, SHE ASKED ME TO COME ONE .. I DUNNO ONE .. " "AI SEH, SHOULD NOT LISTEN TO HER"
DO NOT misunderstood me, seek 2nd opinion is good, the question is, we always take other people's 'advice/opinion" for granted. Then BLAME others for giving you wrong advice when the results of the advice is not what you expected.
BUT, BUT BUT, have you EVER responsible for your own stuffs? Are you seeking opinion from the RIGHT person? A person who have enough knowledge to assist you in making the decision? Do you USE your wisdom to justify and digest info given?
If you cant think of the scenario, it is probably like when you deciding to join a new career, when your investor deciding to invest or not to invest and always want to get 2nd OPINION. The questions is, all these people, included you, are you always discuss or ask the RIGHT QUESTION TO THE RIGHT PERSON?
Like what Yen said, in this world, there is no BEST SOLUTION/ANSWER, ONLY have the BEST SOLUTION that SUIT you the MOST! You always know yourself best, no one knows you better than yourself.
Go to toilet to pee or not to pee~ You know one la ... HAHA.
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5 comments:
HOI ... how come no comment one. You all so geng meh? No experience on this issues ... I AM WONDERING
for me, personal matter i normally won't seek advice from plp because end up i will decided my self. Perhaps i should seek advice and opinion from plps and justify my self later more often.
yup. i agree, how to look for the best solution/answer/plan? the best solution/answer/plan is the one who suit you the most.
teckhuat
ai yoo...
Dun u ever hear of this saying meh... " learn from other ppl's mistakes coz life is too short for u to make all of them " mah….
Comment... surely must ask mah.... (Of course we r the one to decide whom to ask n whether to take action or not lor … of course we r the one to be responsible for the end results lor….) Dun forget wor… u also will learn sth…. after u have given ur comment wor…. Comments, of course not just ask from one people lar… u go toilet also NOT always stick to one location mah…. (go to toilet to pee or not to pee…? Of course must ask other ppl lar…. Dun u wan to challenge security nowadays wor…. So if other ppl can accompany u to go toilet… y NOT leh? Like Apple always said ‘dun face problem alone mah…..’)
So? Ideas / comments are meant to be shared ! the more u share the most u’ll be benefited. (as Apple always told us :p ops… sori… I like to avoid plagiarism tat’s y I need to quote apple :p)
Last but not least, I do strongly agree this ‘there is no BEST SOLUTION/ANSWER, ONLY have the BEST SOLUTION that SUIT you the MOST! You always know yourself best, no one knows you better than yourself.’
However, comments surely must be collected one….
Remember, u r not alone. Do NOT face problems alone! Speak Out when u feel like to… : )
Anonymous = helen yap
haahaha ~
yes, seeking opinion is important with the intention of gather more info, BUT, you must justify it with your wisdom.
yes, seeking opinion is also important because, our eye don't look at yourself clearer than others, sometimes, BUT, still, judge the opinion with wisdom, filter out the one suit you most!
yes helen n teck huat n all other ezy planner, lets grow together, have some accompanian along the road to success~
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